Jolene Blackbourn

California Virtual Estate Planning Attorney & Funeral Planner

About

When families sit down to talk about their future, they need more than just legal paperwork. They need someone who understands exactly what it feels like to navigate the complexities of life, disability, and long-term planning.

My name is Jolene Blackbourn. I am a California-based virtual estate planning attorney and a licensed funeral planner. My practice focuses on helping families establish wills, trusts, and comprehensive plans that reflect their specific needs. I operate a virtual law firm, meaning we can handle everything securely and conveniently from your home.

But my approach to this work comes from a very personal place. My understanding of the challenges families face isn’t just theoretical; it is based on my own life.

Why I Do This Work

I realized early in my law career that estate planning is deeply personal. It is about making sure your voice is heard if you become incapacitated and ensuring your family is cared for when you are gone. I wanted to focus on work that provides practical, legally sound solutions for families navigating these difficult conversations.

My goal has always been to listen closely to my clients, understand their concerns, and help them create plans that are clear, actionable, and tailored to their specific circumstances.

Navigating Special Needs Planning: A Personal Perspective

My deepest connection to this work comes from my role as a mother. I have two children with special needs. Because of this, I don’t just practice special needs planning; I live it.

I have spent years navigating California’s complex systems for individuals with disabilities. I know the frustration and the steep learning curve involved in securing Regional Center services. I am intimately familiar with the intricacies of California’s Self-Determination Program.

I also know the persistent questions that keep parents of children with disabilities awake at night: “Who will care for my child if I can’t? How can I ensure they have a decent quality of life without disqualifying them from necessary government benefits?”

This personal journey fundamentally shapes how I practice law. When families come to me for special needs planning, they are speaking to an attorney who understands the stakes and the systems involved. I am translating the law for parents who are walking a very similar path to my own. Setting up a Special Needs Trust is a crucial step in ensuring a child’s future, and I approach it with the care and understanding it requires.

Estate Planning and Funeral Planning

Over the years, I noticed a recurring issue. Families would create comprehensive wills and trusts, but when a loved one actually passed, they were still overwhelmed by the sudden need to make complex and expensive funeral arrangements.

I realized that comprehensive planning should address this stage as well.

To better serve my clients, I expanded my practice and became a licensed California Funeral Planner. Holding dual licenses (California Bar Number: 221789, California Insurance License: 4301911) allows me to guide families through incapacity planning, asset distribution, and pre-planning final arrangements. This combined approach is designed to reduce the burden on your loved ones during a difficult time.

The Reality of Virtual Estate Planning

Between work, family, and medical appointments, finding the time to visit a law office is difficult for many families.

I structured my practice as a fully virtual estate planning firm to address this. Whether you are establishing a basic will, a complex living trust, or comprehensive special needs planning, we complete the process online. You receive customized legal counsel from a California attorney without the commute.

My virtual services focus on:

Accessibility:

Meetings happen from your home.

Convenience:

We schedule around your busy life.

Comprehensive Service:

You receive the same level of legal document preparation and advice as you would in a traditional office.

Education and Writing

I believe in empowering people with information. Beyond my legal practice, I am the author of two Amazon best-selling books:

The Pre-Law Survival Guide

The Law School Alternative

These books were created to help pre-law students save time, money and stress on their legal journey. I love helping others.

Life in Southern California

When I am not working with clients or navigating the special needs community alongside my children, I enjoy the Southern California lifestyle. I am an avid reader and enjoy playing soccer. You can often find me hiking local trails with my dogs. I also really enjoy participating in our local Halloween community and the creativity that comes with the season.
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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

Is a Living Trust the same as a Will?


A Will is simply a set of instructions, indicating your preferred distribution.  But if it is over the current probate threshold, your family will go through the probate process.

How long does probate take in California in 2026?


Due to ongoing court backlogs and bureaucratic delays, a standard probate case in California in 2026 typically takes between 12 and 24 months to resolve. During this time, your family’s access to the inheritance is heavily restricted.

What if I own property outside California?


If you own property in multiple states, a Living Trust is essential. Without one, your family will have to go through multiple probate processes (ancillary probate), one in every state where you own real estate. A properly funded trust avoids this entirely.

What happens if I marry or divorce later?


Your estate plan must be updated. A divorce does not automatically revoke all parts of your estate plan, and marrying without updating your plan can create massive legal conflicts between your new spouse and your children. A Revocable Living Trust is flexible and can be easily amended as your life changes.

Do you work with unmarried couples?


Yes. Estate planning is uniquely critical for unmarried couples, as default state laws often fail to protect these relationships. We ensure your partner has full legal authority to make medical decisions, access assets, and inherit property without interference from extended family or the state.

Do you work with LGBTQIA+ families?


Yes, proudly. All our forms are LGBTQIA+ friendly. Everyone has the right to use their preferred name and pronouns. Considering the constantly changing federal laws regarding the LGBTQIA+ community, we work with families to ensure everyone is protected under the current laws while also working hard to protect families should their legal status change.